When a narcissistic individual believes ownership of others is their right, enmeshment trauma becomes inevitable, which leaves victims bereft of their own identity, guidance system, and freedom.
Do we create problems in order to correct something that we perceive as wrong within ourselves? Perhaps we need to learn how to mind our own business, or beezwax, instead of searching for problems in others.
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